This or That

How to Play

Setup

1. Choose a facilitator (the Host) to read pairs aloud and manage the pace.
2. Prepare a rapid list of 15–30 contrasting pairs (e.g., "Coffee or Tea?", "Beach or Mountains?", "Early Bird or Night Owl?"). Include light, inclusive options and avoid sensitive topics.
3. Decide on the signal for choosing:
   • In person: move to the left/right side, step forward/back, or raise left/right hand.
   • Virtual: post the choice in chat, use reaction emojis, or a quick poll.
4. Set the time: 3–5 minutes works well. Use a timer if needed.
5. Ensure everyone can see/hear the Host. For hybrid groups, project the call or use a shared screen.

How to Play

1. The Host explains: "I’ll call out pairs. Pick one as fast as you can—there are no wrong answers. Go with your gut!"
2. Demonstrate one practice round so participants know how to signal their choice.
3. Start the timer and read pairs rapidly—about one every 3–5 seconds. Keep energy high and transitions snappy.
4. After each pair, give a beat for people to signal, then immediately read the next pair. Aim for momentum over discussion.
5. Optional micro-debrief: after every 5–7 pairs, pause for 15 seconds and invite 1–2 quick shares ("Anyone want to explain a surprising pick?"). Keep it crisp.
6. End with a fun closer (e.g., "Cake or Ice Cream?") and thank the group. If time allows, invite one highlight reflection from the room or chat.

Rules

1. Fast choices: respond within 3 seconds; instinct over analysis.
2. Respect: no judging others’ choices; keep comments positive and brief.
3. Inclusivity: avoid polarizing or personal topics (politics, religion, health). Keep it light.
4. One choice per round—no fence-sitting unless using a declared "both" or "pass" variation.
5. Safety first: if moving, keep pathways clear; no running or pushing.
6. The Host controls pace; participants follow signals agreed in Setup.

Tips

• Start simple, then mix in playful and work-relevant pairs.
• Vary formats (hand raise, move, chat) to sustain energy.
• Read clearly, with a rhythmic cadence; smile to set tone.
• Seed a few surprising pairs to spark laughter and reveal personality.
• Watch the clock—leave them wanting more.
• Rotate Hosts across sessions to introduce fresh style and lists.

Variations

1. Move-to-Sides (In-Person): Label two sides "This" and "That" and have players physically choose. Great energy booster.
2. Emoji Blitz (Virtual): Assign emojis to each option; participants react instantly.
3. Speed Round: 60 seconds, maximum pairs—can the group beat last session’s count?
4. Themed Packs: Food, Travel, Productivity, Pop Culture, or Company Culture.
5. Spectrum Line: Instead of binary, form a continuum. Participants place themselves along a line to show degree of preference.
6. Team Tally: In small teams, track how often the team aligns. Debrief on similarities and differences.